Here is the uncomfortable truth about complaints: the angrier and longer they are, the easier they are to ignore. Organisations deal with fury every day; they have a process for it, and the process is a sympathetic template reply. What they find much harder to ignore is a short, specific, documented complaint that names a legal duty and asks answerable questions.

The five rules

  1. Write it down. Phone calls vanish. Emails and letters create a record — and a deadline.
  2. Be specific. Date, time, place, names if you have them, what you asked for, what happened. Two short paragraphs of fact beat two pages of feeling.
  3. Name the duty. “Under the Equality Act 2010 you have an anticipatory duty to make reasonable adjustments” transforms your email from feedback into a legal matter that must be assessed.
  4. Ask answerable questions. “What is your policy? What went wrong? What will you change, and by when?” Questions demand answers; venting invites apologies.
  5. Say what happens next. Name the escalation route (ombudsman, EASS, county court) — calmly, once. It signals you know the path and will walk it.

Template letter

Copy, adapt, send. Keep it under a page.

Dear [Manager / Customer Services],

On [date] at approximately [time], at [venue / route / station], I was unable to [board / enter / use the facility] because [the barrier — e.g. “the ramp was not deployed” / “no accessible seating was available” / “the accessible toilet was in use as storage”]. I asked [staff member, if known] for [the adjustment you requested] and [what happened].

I am disabled within the meaning of the Equality Act 2010. Under the Act, [organisation] has an anticipatory duty to make reasonable adjustments for disabled customers, and I believe the above amounts to a failure of that duty.

Please tell me: (1) what your policy requires in this situation; (2) why it was not followed on this occasion; and (3) what steps you will take — and by when — to ensure it does not happen again.

I would welcome a resolution directly with you. If I do not receive a substantive response within 14 days, I will escalate this to [Bus Users UK / London TravelWatch / the Rail Ombudsman / your head office / the Equality Advisory & Support Service] and take further advice on a claim under the Act.

Yours faithfully,
[Name]

Where to escalate

You are not being difficult. You are doing free quality-assurance for an organisation that failed a legal duty — and paving the way for the next person.

Keep every reply, note every deadline, and if you’d like backup, tell us what happened — patterns across many reports are how local failures become campaigns. More on your underlying rights: the Equality Act in plain English.